Love can look different
Therapy for Adults: Healing, Intimacy, and Identity
I provide therapy for adults (18+) who want a safe space to explore healing, identity, relationships, and intimacy, without shame or judgment. This includes individuals in the kink, BDSM, or alternative relationship communities who are seeking trauma-informed, affirming mental health care.
Many adults in these communities have experienced:
- Past sexual, relational, or attachment trauma
- Emotional invalidation or shame around desire or identity
- Confusion about where trauma ends and desire begins
- Difficulty feeling safe, present, or connected in intimate relationships
Therapy can be a place to gently untangle these experiences, helping you find more support, agency, and enjoyment within consensual relationships.
I work with adults who want to:
- Process past trauma or abuse that impacts intimacy or relationships
- Explore boundaries, consent, and emotional safety
- Reduce trauma responses that show up during sex or closeness
- Better understand their nervous system, triggers, and desires
- Strengthen communication and trust with partners
- Enjoy relationships and intimacy more fully after trauma
My approach is kink-aware, consent-centered, and trauma-informed. I focus on helping you feel grounded, empowered, and connected to both yourself and others.
Therapeutic Approach
I am trained in EMDR and integrate DBT, IFS-informed, and utilize creative approaches to support trauma processing, emotional regulation, and self-understanding. Therapy is collaborative and paced according to your needs, with an emphasis on safety, choice, and autonomy.
Important Notes:
- Services on this page are for adults 18+ only
- Therapy focuses on mental health, trauma processing, and relational well-being
- I do not provide sex therapy instruction or explicit sexual content
- All work is grounded in ethics, consent, and professional boundaries
You might be a good fit for this space if you:
- Are 18+ and part of the kink/BDSM or alternative relationship community
- Want kink-affirming therapy without judgment
- Have a history of trauma that impacts intimacy or relationships
- Are neurodivergent and navigating sexual/intimacy desire, boundaries, or masking
Want to feel safer and more present in consensual relationships
